Secret affair...is that redundant?

Hi, I am 30 something yearold lady that has a family and career but want a connection with a man to spice up life. I love that my life is easy going and drama free but want that little something to make me smile during a boring a meeting or while stuck in traffic :)I am in decent shape, educated and most importantSANE! Looking for the same - preferably an older man (it's kinda athing for me lately!) This is my first time here so not sure how exactly it works but if you are interested message me something with substance so I can actually reply and we can get going in maybe a worthwhile adventure